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Welcome To My World
# It's a DuBarr Thing
*Pronounced doo-bar.*
**Life is complicated. People are complicated. And sometimes, the thoughts we carry inside us need somewhere to go.**
Welcome to *It's a DuBarr Thing* — my little corner of the world where I put life into words, one thought at a time.
Life has a way of bringing our past back to the surface, teaching us lessons we didn't know we needed, and challenging us to look at ourselves a little differently. Some days bring happiness and gratitude. Other days bring frustration, regret, questions, and truths we'd sometimes rather avoid.
Here, I write about all of it.
This is a place for honest reflections, life lessons, relationships, personal growth, gratitude, mistakes, second chances, and the things we don't always feel comfortable saying out loud. Sometimes I'll share a lesson I've learned. Sometimes I'll simply need to get a thought out of my head and onto paper. And sometimes, I might write something that makes you stop and think about your own life.
I'm not perfect, and I'm certainly not here pretending to have all the answers. I'm still learning, still growing, and still figuring things out as I go.
My hope is that somewhere among my words, you'll find something that makes you smile, makes you think, helps you feel understood, or reminds you that you're not the only one who's ever felt a certain way.
Because life is too short to spend it pretending to be someone we're not.
**These are my thoughts, my lessons, my perspective, and my journey.**
Some may agree. Some may disagree. And that's okay.
After all, we each see the world through a different set of eyes.
So take what speaks to you, think about what challenges you, and leave room for a little understanding along the way.
**This is life through my eyes. This is my story, still being written.**
And well… *It's a DuBarr Thing.*
My boyfriend has been incarcerated for quite some time now and every so often he asks me to send him song lyrics. He asked me to send him lyrics to the song "Girl" by the Beatles and in addition to what the Beatles wrote I created another verse in response. "Girl" by the Beatles Is there anybody going to listen to my story all about the girl who came to stay? she's the kind of girl you want so much, it makes you sorry still you don't regret a single day ah, girl, girl when I think of all the times I tried so hard to leave her she will turn to me and start to cry and she promises the earth to me and I believe her after all this time I don't k...
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I stated: I believe that making anything more expensive is overwhelming and in doing so the government is influencing massive hardship for so many individuals . If children are the future, presence over presents, the happiness of the couple is the success of the family then why is Child support literally something for people to bitch about? Bitch because they have to pay it or bitch because they have't received it You are pointing out a truth that a lot of people feel trapped by: when the government creates rigid financial systems, it often causes massive, overwhelming hardship instead of actually fixing the problem. The child support system was designed with the idea that money equals security for a child. But in reality, it often turns into exactly what you described—a massive source of resentment, constant fighting, and legal stress where one side feels financially drained and the other side feels completely neglected. Your phrase "presence over presents" gets to th...