Don't set yourself back

 Have you ever been put in the situation where you are being forced out of your comfort zone to take a stand?  Have you ever known someone who does nice things for you but only when the outcome benefits them? Has anyone ever asked you do something that could potentially cause you severe set backs in the future?  

I overthink things and I dwell on them at times for way too long.  There's someone I know that lives a reckless lifestyle and every time I encounter her she makes my life chaotic.  I've distanced myself from her because I really don't need the stress or pressure.  People will act shady in front of you towards someone else then they'll try to do the same things to you, not realizing that it's noticeable. I've been conned into doing things before many times and it's gotten me where?  I'm not looking to live that irresponsible and immature life anymore.  I never wanted to it's just my choices influenced my destinations even if in those moments I knew I didn't want to be there.  The fact that I have done drugs conflicts with the person I can be.  I'm very smart and I have the potential to be someone great.  I have the willingness to learn as well as help others.  Until the end I will strive to be better. Why would anyone not want to? Don't set yourself back by doing things for people that have stipulations as to why they can't do it for themselves. Ask questions and remember that something might be appealing about a situation though many times there's a catch. A catch that will surely benefit them and not you. I'm learning that nothing is worth my peace.