It's a DuBarr Thing

 We sometimes like to think that the grass is always greener on the other side but the truth of the matter is that the grass will be greener wherever you water it.  A way to be thankful about a current situation is to think about the ways in which it could be worse.  Even when it seems as if it couldn't get much worse think about what it's like having a finger chopped off, or breaking both legs, or learning your child has a life threatening illness.. there are so many ways in which we could be in a situation that could have us begging to be only going through what we are right now.  Instead of wanting to tread on someone else's lawn try getting a water source and take care of your own. 

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As I sit to ponder on it I've decided that people who are truly happy with themselves and their life are the ones that don't have much.  The less we have in our possession is the less we have to worry about. It makes me want to get rid of all these material items just taking up space in my apartment.  What causes me to keep memorabilia from farther back than I can even remember? The first few years of life are influenced so deeply by the behavior of the adult that is caring for us. Our influence at that age is so crucial to the rest of our lives.  It literally forms who we are to begin with and our experiences long after are how we grow and actually learn.  It takes a great loss for people to change who and what they are except for the vary rare ones who just want something bad enough that they decide to do whatever it takes to make it happen. The way I learn and the way I feel was programmed in me by way of the behavior of my parents when my brain was brand new. How...

 It doesn't matter what you look like or what you weigh if your heart is ugly, you're ugly. My son's father told me one time that it doesn't matter how good looking someone is someone somewhere is sick of their shit.